TIPS : How to relieve stress ?

Hello there! Today I'm going to share with you how I relieve stress and what you can and should do to relieve stress! I decided to post this because I myself face these problems occasionally and using these tips which I'm going to share with you guys help me through these problems! I know I said that I would blog this post a few days ago but I really didn't have time, Today's Saturday! So I found time to finally blog!

Okay so let's get started!!

#1-Write it out 
Okay so this tip does actually help! Before I started blogging, I actually own a diary (I still write in it but I write more personal stuff inside cuz it's a diary so...) to write my what I do daily and what happen everyday in school. Sadly I don't have time to write in my diary everyday :(

Basically you can just write out what's bothering you, it will make you feel a lot better because you pour everything out instead of bottling everything inside you, I'm telling you, bottling everything in you isn't a healthy thing to do.

#2-Getting enough sleep
I cannot stress this enough but getting enough sleep is very very important!!!!!!! Why you may ask. Because if you don't get enough sleep, when you go to school or work or do anything, you will procrastinate. And if you procrastinate you will not do the things you are suppose to do and therefore all the things you are suppose to do will start to pile up and after that you will be VERY VERY STRESSED OUT!! So please get enough sleep! But please don't sleep 24/7 like this :)




#3-Breathe~~
I know you, me, everybody breathe every minute and every second but what I mean is when you start to feel frustrated and stressed out, take deep breaths!!

Take a 5 to 10 minute break and focus on your breathing. 
Sit up straight with your eyes closed and focus on your breathing. Breathe in for 5 seconds and breathe out, slowly. This really helps!

#4-Listen to music
Honestly music makes us stronger and more relaxed right?

When feeling stressed out, stop whatever you are doing and listen to music, I personally recommend classical music like Beethoven and Instrumental versions of pop music. I really love to listen to Instrumental versions of the latest pop music and Disney theme songs when I study because it literally blocks out everything and just focus on what you are doing and makes you relaxed!

You can find these music on Youtube, Pandora and even Spotify!

 If you are the kind who listens to heavy metal music then don't listen to it when you are trying to relax because obviously it wouldn't help much right? But if listening to heavy metal helps you to relax then go right ahead!!

#5-Take a nap or go out for a short walk 
My last and final tip is to take a nap or go out for a short walk.

This is the simplest yet really effective tip which you can follow! You can do so even when you are not feeling stressed because through taking a nap would allow you and your brain to "stop working" for a while. You need to rest, your body needs to rest too!

Going for a short walk is really good as well because you will be exposed ti the outside instead of just in your room or your house. Every human requires fresh air so by going for a walk makes you feel more refreshed and therefore ready to kick off again!

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And so that marks off the end of the blog post!! I hope it helped you and you enjoyed reading it! If you used these tips then comment down below whether it did make you feel better! And if you have any other tips, comment below as well!

If you want more tips posts, comment below on what tips you want me to share and I'll be sure to check them out maybe do it on my next tips post!!

I hope you guys liked this post! Thank You so much for taking your time to read it and I love y'all so much!

Bye~~💜💜💜

School // Back to Basic

Hello to my dearest viewers ! How have you guys been ? Hopefully you are feeling happy and blessed right now !



So school reopened a few days ago on 27th June :( June Holidays have ended !! Looking forward to the September holidays now hehe ! If you are from the States , June Holidays is basically your Summer Holidays .

Fortunately , this Semester would not be as hectic as the previous one !!! On Friday after CCA , my form teacher gave out a list of days of us not going back to school as well as the days of us going back home early !!! To be very honest I am actually looking forward to this semester and somehow I have a lot of motivation to complete homework and actually study . I know it sounds nerdy but yeaaaa !

I guess I am so motivated is because this year is considered a partial streaming year because if we do not do well , we will be demoted to Normal Academic or Normal Technical which is somewhere I do not wanna go... So if I want to remain in Express , I would have to score well !! #GreenPenguinFightingPower

Back to the topic , school reopened and as usual every subject teacher would take time and talk to all of us about our holiday and so on !

Sadly , I get tons of homework everyday and extra now because I am taking higher chinese :)

On the bright side , there isn't school tomorrow because of Youth Day !!!!!!!!!!! But that means more studying 👍

As most of you can see , I kind of blog more now haha because I really wanna talk to you guys and share my feelings to you guys and learn a thing or two from each other 👅

If any of you want to share your feelings , concerns etc. to me , you can email me at teenagerdestination@gmail.com ! I will try to reply as soon as I can ! We can be friends too :) You can email me if there is anything you wanna ask me or things I can improve on ! But I wouldn't reply if it is too private so yea... Comment below if you wanna recommend any blogging ideas !

This ends of this blog post ! I will blog tomorrow because it will be a tips post and it kinda relates to me and I want to share and help you guys who are facing those problems occasionally !

See you guys tomorrow and thank you for reading ! I love y'all so much ! Bye 💜💜💜

After everything , what exactly is love ?

Love ,

Probably the most mundane thing people talk about .

As a 13 year old student studying in a mixed school , I come across many boys and girls who are so desperate for love that they are willing to do anything for it .

What about you ?

And what about me ?

Maybe for you , yes you , is already taken by the best girl or guy in the world ( which maybe isn't ) and you feel really blessed that there is this "special someone" beside you whenever you need them . Maybe your "special someone" is someone who will send you morning and night texts .

But what about us singles out there ? We don't have somebody who will send us texts like "I love you babe , you will always have me by your side , now and forever"

Me , as a single do have a crush and I believe most of you , my dear viewers have one too . And if you really do have a crush , when others ask you whether you are a single or not you will say I am single and happy . But deep down , do you really feel that way ? I do that too , but deep down I feel left out by my peers who have a boyfriend and someone who will send that texts that us singles do not receive .

Sadly for me , the people whom I hang out with are already taken and during recess and break times they would start talking about their boyfriends etc. And what would I be doing ? Just sitting there and be a lightbulb :)

There were times where I feel so insecure that I just wanna leave my friends and date a guy whom I have no feelings for just for the sake of it .

And guess what ? I really did that .

The funny part is less than a weeks' time , we broke up because he kept sending me mushy texts and I just don't even bother to reply back haha . So after that he said this : " Since you don't bother to even reply my messages , then what's the point of being in a relationship ? Just end this . " And since I don't have feelings for him , at all , I just replied : " Alright ! "

But now we are like brothers and sisters , looking out for each other . He has his own crush in his school and I have mine .

So fellow viewers out there , don't ever do so because

Loving someone out of force will never come out with happiness :)

My next post will be about how I feel around my crush and so on .

I hope you guys liked this post and learned a thing or two from it :)

I love y'all so much and thank you guys for your support !!

Signing off ,
💚Green Penguin💚

Him. -- Self-Written

Him

Through my best friend
Screaming about how you are
Started being excited
She pointed at you
I had my first look
You entered my eyes

You stole my heart
I was falling in love,
with you
You became my everything

Every time I'll wonder where are you
Thinking about you

I miss you all the time
But I don't know your name

Cannot be described by words
I love you
You belong in another world

Continued for 2 months
You are still in my heart
You are in my mind 24 7

My best friend likes you too
Till one day
I asked you what was your name
I was hoping for your name
But it was a I don't know
I was hurt
But I didn't give up
I kept asking

Then one day
"They" asked
What was your name
He said it out
I heard it clearly
I did not know how I felt

They introduced themselves
One by one
You were friendly towards them

Why

Why

I ask myself over and over again

You were the reason for me to look forward to every session
I don't understand

They were the popular ones
I was not

Did you not tell me your name because I was not in the popular group?

You started to get closer to them through every session
I watched every single action
I listened to every single word
That came from you

You have no idea how hurt I was

Whenever I say Hi
You say hi back,
but not looking at me.
You say hi to them

You got so close to them
You tell them so much about yourself
What school you go to
How old you are
Your lifestyle
Your likes and dislikes

I sat there quietly
Looking at you guys
Happily talking

That day
After the session
I sat in the bus with my classmate
I started crying
It became a frequent habit

Crying was my saviour
You were the guy,
whom I shed the most tears for.

I don't get it
Why

One day
They found out that I like him
They told him that
He said ok
Shrugging his shoulders
Like he didn't care

I really wanted to just go up to you,
and tell you how I feel
But courage and confidence wasn't with me
I felt hopeless

It continued on and on
I kept crying

The last 2 days of the session
It was the actual performance

Because of you
I was afraid

The last day
The last time I can see you
I finally got the chance to be in your arms
A tear shed when I hugged you
I wanted to stay there
Forever
In your arms
Never to leave
But it is impossible

That hug fixed all my broken pieces

After the performance
We had only 1 more hour to leave
Leave the area
Never to return again

Some of us cried
Because we couldn't bear to leave everything behind
So as I
I cried so much

You came forward
Hug the ones who were crying
But you didn't notice me
It's broken
Once again

You continued to remain in my heart
From February till the end of March
A picture and words

Decided what's destined between us
I cried again
For an hour
Thought for 2 hours
I've decided
To give up

I told myself that I cannot stay in this pain
anymore
If not I may just die
The pictures of you in my phone
were soon deleted

It was kind of hard to put it all behind
But it worked

I do think of you once in a while
Replay each scene again
I do cry when I remember what happened in that 2 months

I want to thank you
Because of you
I became stronger

We are still friends
But you are no longer someone important in my life
Because the hurt you've caused cannot be forgotten
But I still miss you once in a while
What's in the past, is the past
I've learned to accept it with no complains

 

 

Hello, World!

I've decided to restart my Blog.

This Blog.

Why, you might ask?

As for my "New" Blog, I want to feel like someone, somewhere, will be able to read what I've got to say.

That's why I've decided to restart this Blog, with an anonymous name and all.

This Blog will be anonymous.

So that I can be totally me.

For those that know how I look like, read all my posts and all, I hope that you will keep a secret or what I posted before but deleted now.

My best friend Panda (that's not her real name by the way - I cannot give her real name or this won't be anonymous) is actually the only person who knows the real life me. Like how I look and all. She is in the same school and class as me, also the closest person to me.

Sometimes I tend to wonder if it is because I am a teenage girl that I have anxiety issues. Let us girls face it - there is a lot to get anxious about.

I am going to say what I want to say, and it would be really cool if you (whoever you might be) join me.

This can be our very own corner of the Internet, where we can talk about what it truly feels like to be a teenage girl - without having to pretend to be something we are not.

I also love taking photos and drawing, especially sketching, coloring and typography. I will try to post as much of those here. But obviously there will not be any selfies for anonymity reasons.

Ok well I guess that is all for now. Thank you for reading and let me know what you think in the comments below.

Teenage Destination, going offline, xxx

Help!!

Hey, guys!

Today's post is really difficult to write because it's about something really scary that has happened to me - is happening to me right now. When I first started this blog, I promised myself to be as honest as I could here, but back then I had no idea that Teenager Destination would take off the way it has. I still cannot believe that now I have officially 905 page views with approximately 853 followers! Thanks so much! Although the thought of sharing it with you guys is terrifying, I think it might make me feel better, so here it goes...

Several years ago, I met with an accident. It's OK! It's not any car accident or whatever. It happened in my house. But it was still one of the worst experiences ever - of my life.

My mom and I were playing in our bedroom. My mom was attempting to run out of our room when I somehow slipped and fell on the floor. Most people who fall would fall on their bum, knees, elbows and so on. But I did not fall on any of these areas.

I fell on my chin.

And my chin literally split apart.

I know it sounds gross, but that's the truth.

And my blood was all around the floor.

My mom heard a loud sound and immediately rushed in. I was crying and she took a lot of tissue paper to let me hold it on my chin to try and stop the bleeding.

I kept crying and crying non-stop, because it was really painful. My mom said that she could almost see my bone.

Obviously I needed to go to a doctor to stop the bleeding immediately or else I would have loss a huge amount of blood. We had to take a bus there and everyone was looking at us. Possibly judging us?

When we reached the clinic, the nurse saw my condition and allowed us to go first before the patients as my condition was of course more serious than just flu, cough or fever. The doctor could not do much but the least he could do was help me stop the bleeding. He helped us call the ambulance and we went to the hospital.

After we reached the hospital, the doctor did further things (which I completely don't know because they gave me something to drink that will put me in a short coma) After I woke up, I had some bandage on my chin and it was pretty painful. My mom notified my dad and we had to wait for a while for other further X-Rays and "surgery".

When my turn came, a nurse gave me an injection which will numb my chin, ONLY, because it's not good to keep putting yourself in a coma or something bad may happen... The nurse apparently escorted me to a kids area and told my mom something, which I don't know at all. The kids area is a place where some nurses would read story books or play with you. A nurse played with me and I was completely distracted and did not even know what the other nurse told my mom.

When it was time to do my surgery, (I still did not know what was happening) we went to the surgery room which I didn't know it was a surgery room. I was told to lie on the "bed" and don't move. My dad arrived too, btw. And so the doctor put a cloth on my eyes so I can't see anything.

I was told not to talk during the process and I could feel needles around my chin area. Actually, the doctor was stitching my chin together again. Because it was very gross to see your own chin being stitched.

What am I trying to say?

Basically I've been having these weird panicky moments if I happen to see someone fall down or accidentally touch my chin... If something stresses me out and I feel like I can't breathe. It has happened three times now - and I am really scared that it is going to happen continuously. And I don't know what to do.

I hope you don't mind me writing about this. I promise I will get back to my usual self next week. I will try to blog more often when I have the chance! But if any of you have been through anything like I've just described, and you have any tips on how to make it stop, pleeeeese post them in the comments below. It's bad enough being the CLUMSIEST PERSON in the whole world. I don't want to be the PANICKIEST PERSON TOO!!

Thank You! :)

Teenager Destination , going offline xxx

Random Thoughts

I will be going to Middle School in 2016 and I have been to several schools to go for their Open Houses to look around the school and know more about it. I made my 6 choices like just now and I am currently procrastinating, so I decided to share it with you guys by making a blog post.

The thing is that. I will be going to a totally NEW environment. I will be sitting with a stranger whom I've never seen before.

What if I can't make new friends, what if I will not be accepted by my classmates/schoolmates? What if I go all clumsy and silly in front of my classmates on the 1st day of school? What if I go to the wrong class on the 1st day??

What do I do?